He said the right thing. I didn't know it's what I needed to hear, even.
We had a bit of a rub, a moment where it felt like his needs vs mine.
Sometimes it's so easy to experience someone else's needs as a threat, no?
Which is kinda the way it can feel sometimes since even having needs is so vulnerable...and articulating them can feel even more so. And then when it seems they might be at odds...Read More